Among the area of problems or conflicts in a marriage relationship, the sex life has been of great concern for most couples. There are many agitations in the minds of many lovers. That’s what gave birth to the following frequently asked questions about sex.
These cut through all levels of marriage, most especially for the newly-wedded couples. The right answers to these questions we solve many problems associated with romance and sex in any relationship.
Dear reader, I would like you to share your opinion about one or more of these frequently asked questions about sex. Just leave a reply.
1. For the past 8 years, my wife wouldn’t let me caress her breasts. What is the problem with her?
2. My wife’s vaginal lubrication is too much; this often gives some irritating hissing sound while thrusting. Besides, her vagina does not retain sperm. What can be done?
3. My husband wants us to have sex anywhere – in the kitchen, the bathroom, on the floor of the sitting room, etc. Should I give in? I think he is being unreasonable.
4. My wife wants us to put off the light, but I want it on. Who is wrong – me or her?
5. Please, my husband believes that we can kiss any parts of our bodies, be it the penis, the nipples, the clitoris, even the anus etc. It sounds disgusting! Is he sensible at all?
6. My husband wants sex every day, though once per day. I enjoy sex twice in a week. Is he alright?
7. When I suggest some other sex techniques and positions, my partner objects to it. I like varieties. What can I do?
8. My husband wants two or more rounds of sex in a single episode, but I never feel like it after the first round. How can I please my husband?
9. My husband does not wait for me to be sexually aroused before entrance. He leaves me totally starved! Could you please help me to counsel him on my sexual needs?
10. My partner keeps dumb and still during sex. She does not show emotions or any pleasurable movements. I want us to verbally express the sexual excitement using jokes, teases, grunts, and so on. What is wrong? Is she frigid?
11. I was in his office on a certain day and he asked for sex; I felt embarrassed and refused his advances since the environment looked odd to me, and he became dejected. What should have been my reaction?
12. My partner wants sex when I do not feel in the mood. For instance, when I’m tired, he may be ready for sex. How can we reconcile the conflicts in our moods at such times?
Generally, it is the “little things” on sex that often lead to differences among couples as you could see from the frequently asked questions about sex. What would you advise in any of the case?